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Post by ELIKOLANI FREMONT on Jul 24, 2011 2:35:51 GMT -5
lani-babyyy is online, okie dokies. lani it is =]. well i guess so, but those who are angel drunks are probably the ones who mellow out when they have too much to drink. i mean, some are giggly, some are flirty, some are crazy.... and i guess they're just the people who are calm and mellow. very good thing. now i'll know when you're flirting with me. =P. yeah, i agree. i worry how these news travel. of course! you can ask me anything logan! ^^ |
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Post by LOGAN MATHIEU on Jul 24, 2011 2:43:53 GMT -5
[/font] is online and typing... [/center] - - - yeah, you are probably right. i know that i am the one wanting to dance, kiss and even have sex. alcohol does things to me, that only one other "thing" has ever done to me. but it would be a shame to call her a "thing". which brings me on to the advice thing.. okay, it's kinda hard for me to talk about this, so i'm going to need your word that you won't tell anyone about what i'm going to say now.
but my best friend's little sister.. is like the most beautiful creature i have ever seen. i'm pretty sure that i am love with her.. and i know she feels something for me. we flirt a lot, but only when we're drunk. i guess we are both too afraid to do it when we are sober. because her brother, my best friend is like super protective of her. i'm afraid i might end up loosing both if i ever told him how i feel. |
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Post by ELIKOLANI FREMONT on Jul 24, 2011 2:56:25 GMT -5
lani-babyyy is online, lol well alcohol tends to have that affect on people. oh? i promise, logan. cross my heart, hope to die, poke a needle in my eye and everything. you can trust me with your secret =]. i will keep it to my grave. hmmm.... that's a tough one. well i want to say "if he's really your best friend, he'd understand" or maybe even "well as long as you're happy and in love with her, everybody else's opinion shouldn't matter" but i don't think those are the right things to say. i understand how difficult it is to be stuck between your best friend and the girl you're in love with, but i think it'd be best if you just sit her brother down and have a talk. don't straight out ask how he'd feel about it, but maybe ease into it. if he gets angry with you, well you'll just have to be patient and let him be angry first. that is his sister you're talking about, so it'll take some time to adjust for him. but in the end, he'll realize that you're still his best friend, and while it's going to be super weird for him, he'd accept it cause you're his best friend, but that would take a long time. it's going to be a very rough and tough road, but as long as the destination is worth it, then you'll just have to suffer through the journey. but you're going to have to do a lot of convincing. a lot of genuine convincing. no lying or cheating your way into this. you want his full attention so then he can't say that he doesn't remember having this take because he had been busy watching a game or something..... i hope that helps... sorry if i'm no help at all =[ |
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Post by LOGAN MATHIEU on Jul 24, 2011 3:06:33 GMT -5
[/font] is online and typing... [/center] - - - so your advice is to tell him? like really make him listen and understand exactly how i feel. he'll probably go in defense mode and be all like "but, you've hurt so many girls. who says you won't hurt ceri then?" and it's true.. i'm kinda a heartbreaker. but not intentionally. but i would never do anything to hurt ceridwyn. you've been a great help, lani! i just need to find the courage to tell him. and preferably when i'm not drunk, eh? (; |
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Post by ELIKOLANI FREMONT on Jul 24, 2011 3:11:55 GMT -5
lani-babyyy is online, yeah, i think the less you prolong it, the better. i mean if the girl you're in love with really does love you back, she'd wait. but if you keep her waiting, she might not wait forever. well him going in defense mode is only natural. he is her brother after all. i mean, if i were in his shoes, i'd easily snap into defensive mode. that's why, like i said, you're going to have to do a lot of genuine convincing. don't tell me that. tell the brother. and the girl. glad to know i don't suck that much with advice! haha. you'll find it. i believe in you! and it'd be best if you're not because i think that'll just make things worst for yourself if you do. |
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